Mrs. Georgia Bulson, my classroom teacher, was interested in me. She saw potential in all of her students, including the sleep deprived. She encouraged us, believed in us, pushed us, and entertained us. My favorite moments in class included sitting on the classroom rug while she read Nancy Carlson books in an animated fashion. I was a challenging student, and in return, Mrs. Bulson challenged me to learn and be engaged. For example, I didn’t qualify for gifted and talented programming, but I showed enough spunk, energy, and talent in pushing back against school that she found a way to redirect my energies. She made a deal with me: If I did my work in class, she would let me join Omnibus, the gifted and talented class. I was ecstatic. My self-esteem soared. I felt smart, relevant, and important. I helped to create the heady Omnibus newsletter, a good challenge that was both fun and exhilarating.
Mrs. Bulson singlehandedly changed my seven-year-old life. At the end of the school year, I was preparing to move to South Minneapolis with my family. Mrs. Bulson stopped me as I exited the classroom for the last time. She said, “I want to stay in contact with you.” That was the beginning of a lifetime friendship.
The following school year, I started third grade across the Mississippi River in what seemed like a foreign land. I was shocked and disheartened that my new teacher didn’t meet the standards set by Mrs. Bulson. One day, I phoned Mrs. Bulson with my concern. I said, “My teacher thinks I am dumb.” She said, “Why do you think that? Do you do your homework?” I said, “No, but can you talk to her?”
That was one of many conversations spanning childhood, adolescence, and adulthood. We went from yearly summer lunches to yearly phone calls and greetings cards to stay in touch. I still refer to her as Mrs. Bulson, my second grade teacher, although she often reminds me that I can now call her Georgia, my friend. When I deal with children in my line of work, I channel Mrs. Bulson, so I, too, can singlehandedly change the lives of children by helping them reach their full potential.